When should I start potty training?

One of the most significant achievements during your child's early years is conquering the challenge of potty training. Potty training can be both exciting and daunting. It marks a crucial step in your child's development, as they transition from being fully dependent on nappies to mastering the art of using the bathroom. Some children will show signs very early, but most children will show signs around the toddler stage - so anywhere from the age of 2-3.

If your child starts showing any signs earlier than this, say from 18 months, that’s okay! If your child is not showing signs at this age, that’s okay too. Every child, and their journey, is unique. Read on to learn about the signs you should look out for to know if your toddler is ready for potty training.

Things to look out for

  • Does your child have a dry nappy in the morning?

  • Are they coming to you and telling you that they need the toilet?

  • Are they having more interest in their bowel movements or the toilet in general?

All of the above are signs that your little one could be ready to start using the toilet. Below we delve into how to actually begin your journey into potty training your child.

Introducing potty training

Allow a timeframe of 6-8 weeks to introduce the idea of potty training. By this we mean start to talk to your child about it so that they get used to the idea and begin to understand what it means, rather than just springing it upon them. This should help make the transition from nappy to potty easier. You can use tools like songs, stories, books and even videos/movies. Let them see you on the toilet (you’ve probably already got that part covered!) and talk to them about your bowel movements and theirs, too. By doing this and easing them into the idea of potty training, you’ll lessen any potential anxiety they might have around it.

take your time

Don’t feel pressured to get your child potty trained in a time frame that doesn’t work for them. Make sure your child is showing signs and if they’re not, you can wait a little bit longer. Families can often put pressure on themselves to get their child potty trained when really, there’s no rush.

If you find that you try for a week and it doesn’t work (or is a total disaster) - that’s okay. Wait two more weeks and try again.

Something to consider

Do you have any life-changing things happening soon? A new baby? Are you moving house? Is there going to be a change in your child’s routine (a new nursery or school)? It’s recommended not to start potty training if you do have something like this happening. Too much change can be really unsettling for your child.

Remember

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